Title: good news but creepy
thefishofdoom - March 26, 2006 04:47 AM (GMT)
yup i found out my mom is pregnate
its creepy becease she 40 :unsure:
Black Angel - March 26, 2006 05:23 AM (GMT)
congratz, i dont see how its creepy tho.. our mom had our baby bro when she was that age.. and besides there are 60 year old women out here having kids anyway.. :)
Dictator - March 26, 2006 07:34 PM (GMT)
Yeah, hear about that really old chick, the oldest girl allive to give birth. She was like 80, 70, or 60. I don't know, but that's creepy. You'd have to be real drunk...
Black Angel - March 27, 2006 01:42 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Sae @ Mar 26 2006, 02:34 PM) |
| Yeah, hear about that really old chick, the oldest girl allive to give birth. She was like 80, 70, or 60. I don't know, but that's creepy. You'd have to be real drunk... |
no.. its called in vitro fertilization.. see thats the best thing.. because of that little advancement in medicine, it is now safe to say that women don't need men for anything. Before that, we needed men to physically impregnate us, but now there are clinics, to help us pick the potential fathers.. so unless the mother-to-be is some slutty teenage girl who screwed everyone in the frat house as well as the football team, there is no guessing game as to who the real father is.. we get to pick the fathers.. and (like some guys who would screw some random girl and not give a rat's ass about asking her name, or her age) we don't have to know (or care) who they are or what they do for a living.. and so now we don't have to worry about the possibility of the father being a total loser.. you will know all about a man's background because they are screened.. we get to pick the father we want. i do admit that it is kinda wrong that men are now reduced to nothing more than "walking sperm dispensers" but hey, to each his own right?
Besides more and more women are harvesting their eggs so that they are able to have kids at a later age.. that is why you have some women who are in their 60's getting pregnant.. (it's not as if they are actually having sex to get pregnant) In fact, most of these women are women who have careers and want to focus on it, without having to worry about finding a guy, getting married and then having a kid.. This puts a tremendous pressure on women because most stop producing ova (eggs) when they are in their mid 40's.. (that is what they mean when they say that their "biological clock is ticking..") In vitro fertilization alleviates that pressure in that they can just have a kid when they want to and cut-out men altogether.. :)
VirusZero - March 27, 2006 04:03 PM (GMT)
great, :ashamed: the next step is to make it so women can combine ovas to get pregnate instead of using the sperm? it's kinda scary thinking about it like that, so that women no longer even need the sperm let alone the guys...
Black Angel - March 27, 2006 06:33 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (VirusZero @ Mar 27 2006, 11:03 AM) |
| great, :ashamed: the next step is to make it so women can combine ovas to get pregnate instead of using the sperm? it's kinda scary thinking about it like that, so that women no longer even need the sperm let alone the guys... |
Don't get me wrong, we want the men, but let's be truthful now, how many guys will father kid with a woman, and are actually willing to be there for that child? Not many. How many men are willing to be with woman regardless of the fact that she has kids from a prior relationship? Not many. Most of the men who do this are indeed keepers, while others are child molesters, merely using the mothers to get access to their children. Having to be in that situation, is a nightmare.. some women do the right thing, and leave the man in an attempt to do what is best for the child, but most will go into denial, and stay with the men, even though they know in their hearts, that something isn't right.. (young kids don't lie, especially about something like that..)
Women get tired of the bullshit that men throw us when it comes to being them faithful, and actually commiting to a relationship, and so it is even worse when they end up impregnating you and you tell them as such. Trust me, i've been there.. So a woman finally finds a man who is willing to be with her, regardless of the fact, that she's got kids with another man, but now she has to worry about that man being a child molester? Does that seem fair? I think not. Let's not forget the men who get you pregnant and when you tell them (even though you don't want the kid) they say they'll be there, and convince you to keep it, and then disappear after the kid is born. that happened to my best friend.. when she told me that, i wanted to cut his balls off She was devastated. :angry: On the brightside, she loves her son very much, and has been doing everything since the day she found out she was pregnant.. :)
Women shouldn't have to go thru this nonsense just for having a child, it's hard enough to raise one, so why should they have to go through this too? So yeah, sometimes you have to cut out the man, but that doesn't mean that we want to.. we just do it for our own good. :)
thefishofdoom - March 28, 2006 03:16 AM (GMT)
I think vz just siad what evey guy here was thinking :unsure:
Dictator - March 28, 2006 03:19 AM (GMT)
But a majority of the population isn't like that. If so many women weren't so nieve then this wouldn't happen. Most of themcan't see through the men who have issues of anger, or hate, or just really don't care about the relationship and just want to go and have sex. If they did this stuff wouldn't happen, though unfortunately most of men have that primitive uncontrolled craving. Just saying don't be nieve and examine the people around you. You can't forgive every mistake you learn about and you can't believe every word you hear because that's the number one thing that'll get women.
thefishofdoom - March 28, 2006 03:27 AM (GMT)
*thefishofdoom is going to go biled a safty bunker now becase im going to hide in it till the fallout of what you just said is over k Sae
VirusZero - March 28, 2006 04:57 AM (GMT)
i just don't want it so the next sexual revolution is for us guys to have to prove we are still useful.
i'll admit sometimes some guys do dumb stuff, but so do some women, its a 50/50 responsibility split, if the woman knows she can get pregnant and doesn't want to, then she shouldn't go banging everything that moves, but if she gets raped or otherwise coerced into it then it isn't her fault and she should chose what to do according to her current needs.
but there are guys out there who are all about the next lay, and there are girls who "think" they can change a guy like this, if you know a girl like this, warn her now that it aint a science fair project, and it ain't gonna work, once dead set in a certain way ( specifically that way ) there is no change. and same goes for some girls, they can't be changed either.
thefishofdoom - March 28, 2006 05:11 AM (GMT)
Soul_Gatherer3000 - April 1, 2006 04:22 AM (GMT)
man, you people really know how to rant, but anywho, congrats Fish of doom *echo: doom, doom, doom ... edness*
thefishofdoom - April 1, 2006 04:24 AM (GMT)
well i found out its a boy yayayayayaa lil bro to train to get me sodas lol
Soul_Gatherer3000 - April 1, 2006 04:26 AM (GMT)
good luck with that, I have a baby bro. and all he's good for is air unfreshener and runin' over people in his walker (which hurts like stabing yourself in the arm with a safety pin [which surprisingly doesn't hurt that much])
Black Angel - April 7, 2006 01:33 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Sae @ Mar 27 2006, 11:19 PM) |
| But a majority of the population isn't like that. If so many women weren't so nieve then this wouldn't happen. Most of themcan't see through the men who have issues of anger, or hate, or just really don't care about the relationship and just want to go and have sex. If they did this stuff wouldn't happen, though unfortunately most of men have that primitive uncontrolled craving. Just saying don't be nieve and examine the people around you. You can't forgive every mistake you learn about and you can't believe every word you hear because that's the number one thing that'll get women. |
I agree that women are naive, and that is because they enter the relationship with the guy hoping to change him. Men, on the other hand enter the relationship hoping not to change..
but yeah having younger sibs is cool, i have 3.. when bdx and i were growing up, he drove me up a fucking wall and we fought a lot of the time.. dont get me wrong, he and i got along some of the time.. I taught him how to play chess, pool, basketball (he was about 6 or 7 then), how to hide chicken hearts in your pocket only to throw them out later, as well as other stuff.. even though we fought like cats and dogs, we had each others back in the street.. And as scrawny as he was when he was younger, he was protective of me.. i remember one summer we went to rite aid to get some stuff for our road trip to virginia, and we walked past this auto garage where this idiot always made a pass at me.. i mean he really pissed me the hell off, so i ignored him.. so we were about to walk past there, until bdx says, wait.. and he gets off his bike and says "ok now walk" and at the same time i am walking, he walks with me while pulling his bike.. (he was trying to keep that pervert from looking at my ass) its funny, as quick as we were to tell on each other, to our mom, we are quick to defend each other, when our parents assume the worst..
i think the best thing about it, is that everything he did to me when we were younger, he gets back twice.. :lol: from our younger sibs.. :)
VirusZero - April 7, 2006 03:05 AM (GMT)
i have 2 younger bro's, one is a basically a year and 6 months younger than me and the other is 7 years younger than me, ( me and the youngest don't get along well, it's probably cause dad/mom say we're so much alike, and that he wants to be like me. you know the whole play my games, listen to my music, take my stuff routine)
having 2 younger bros isn't as fun as it seems at times, the larger the gap the harder it is to get along because you have completely different interests, the 7 year gap that me and my youngest brother have is only now just starting to close in terms of what we like. ( that and the fact that since i moved out of our house he actually gets near the computer now, before me or my other brother were always using it. basically it'd be one on the computer and the other playing ps2. )
in order to rant you must have 1. knowledge of the subject and 2. the correct use of the words to properly convey the meaning, i have a decent grasp of them but Black_Angel's knowledge is much greater. and her sentence structure is better too.
Soul_Gatherer3000 - April 7, 2006 03:07 AM (GMT)
befor my baby bro which is almost 16 years younger than me I'm like 10 years younger than my youngest sister (not includin' steps and stuff.)
Black Angel - April 7, 2006 03:34 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (VirusZero @ Apr 6 2006, 11:05 PM) |
| the larger the gap the harder it is to get along because you have completely different interests, the 7 year gap that me and my youngest brother have is only now just starting to close in terms of what we like. |
i hear you on that one.. bdx and i like the same music.. its funny because he calls me up asking me about songs and the poor kid cant keep a tune so he has to hum.. and after about 30 seconds i would give him the name of that song.. :)
| QUOTE (VirusZero @ Apr 6 2006, 11:05 PM) |
| the ability to rant comes with a bit of practice. and i've had time to practice. but Black_Angel is even better at it than me. |
uh hunh.. do i smell a double entendre? :lol: :)
VirusZero - April 7, 2006 04:01 AM (GMT)
oh noes, it was a double barrel statement, i shot myself with the other barrel. ( i have commited verbal suicide ) my mistake.
Black Angel - April 7, 2006 04:08 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (VirusZero @ Apr 7 2006, 12:01 AM) |
| oh noes, it was a double barrel statement, i shot myself with the other barrel. ( i have commited verbal suicide ) my mistake. |
*Black Angel gives VZ a hug.. :lol: :) :B):
Dark Mage - April 7, 2006 04:26 AM (GMT)
Be grateful you're not the youngest in your familys,like me,my older sister is so bossy,she drives me insane and believe me,I'm the only one in my family that likes the stuff I like,and it drives me insane.
So at least you can teach your younger siblings to do stuff,like BA and BDX.
Believe me,it sucks bein the youngest.